Making Lemonade out of Lemons

Throughout my life I've read and been told that my perspective on something, attitude towards a situation, ability to handle stressful circumstances has everything to do with the quality, or lack of, in my life. I've never doubted this to be the truth.

MIL's been blessed with a compassionate and loving caregiver, who herself has suffered the recent loss of her husband of 40 years and within the past 12 months the passing of her mother. She and I spent a lot time talking and sharing and dare I say, laughing.

As cruel as this may sound laughter is the best medicine one person can give to another. The endorphins released help accelerate the healing process, as well as replenish white blood cells. In most challenging circumstances levity is needed so those involved can catch their breath and regain perspective.

The caregiver in her sixties is full of life even as she battles her own challenges and bouts with depression. I was very thankful that God sent her to care for my MIL enabling me to partake of her wisdom and learn. I know I will walk this bridge again someday - hopefully not soon - as my mom steadily ages.

In any sad or tragic circumstance try and find lemons and then make lemonade for your loved ones, as well as yourself!